Real-Life Lessons About After 7 Years in Corporate Job, Back Home For Good

After 7 Years in Corporate Job, Back Home For Good, I want to congratulate one of our B.Y.O.B partner James sa kanyang success na naabot gamit itong automated business system na to…

Ito yung sabi niya sa facebook post niya:

TODAY IS MY LAST WORKING DAY SA CORPORATE LIFE KO

Almost 7 years ago, nag decide ako na makipag sapalaran dito Dubai.

Sa mga early years ko dito, Financially, I thought, my financial life ay walang patutunguhan, walang ipon, walang maipundar para sa future, nababaon pa sa utang. At ang dami pang emotions na dumadating throughout my OFW Journey.

Ang daming adjustments na nangyari, na homesick, muntik ng sumuko, sumubok din ako sa ibat ibang uri ng mga pweding pagkakakitaan, nagparenta ng bedspace, nag networking, nag tinda tinda ng gamit, at kung ano ano pa.

Disappointment

⚠I was broke. . . .

But I did not let it continue to happen.

I strived hard dito sa profession ko, inaral ang mga pasikot sikot, and so, I got promoted multiple times din sa trabaho ko, and yung salary ko ay nagiging sapat na sa lahat ng gastusin ko para sa pamilya ko.

Nadala ko din ang pamilya ko dito sa Dubai, nakaya nang salary ko na payagan ng gobyerno na makapag sponsor ng VISA para sa kanila …..

✍Gusto ko na rin ang trabaho ko as HR…my life was good, very thankful din na binigay sakin ni lord sakin ang blessings na yun, madaming naging kaibigan… and my life became COMFORTABLE.👨‍👩‍👦

Pero it came to a point na fefeel ko pa din na something is really missing in my LIFE. Sabi ko, this is not what I wanted, THIS CAN BE GREAT! gusto ko ang good life ko ay maging GREAT life.

Stress

Everytime kasi na nakikita ko ang mga boss ko na miserable ang buhay, stressed out, at sobrang loaded na sila sa trabaho, lagi kong iniisip na, I don’t want that to happen in my life.

I don’t want to be promoted as high as their level para lang ma experience ang kanilang dinadanas every single day. Gusto ko yung masaya ako sa ginagawa ko, gusto ko yung motivated ako dahil sa ginagawa ko, gusto ko din na maraming akong time para sa personal na bagay, ayokong makulong sa corporate life ng habang buhay.

🔥TODAY AY LAST DAY KO NA SA TRABAHO KO, bilang OFW, bilang HR PROFESSIONAL  hindi na ako empleyado last working day ko na sa trabaho APRIL 26, 2018🔥

This is now a period of intense and profoundly scary life changes for me, pero ito ang pinili kong journey. I decided to make this happen, and I pushed myself until I did.

Today I’d like to share a few things that worked for me, in case you’re considering changing your life, hindi lang sa employment or sa kung ano meron tayo ngayon, but changing our life.

 

It’s Time To Change

✔Maybe you want to to do something more, start an organization or company that will change the world in some way.
✔Maybe you want to change your eating and fitness habits and become healthy.
✔Maybe you want to finally have that breakthrough sa Unity Network business natin SOMEDAY.

and that Someday is today.🌞

Let’s look at how you find that motivation to finally start changing — and then to keep going when the changes certainly get tough.

None of these are undefeatable, but they can often cause us to put off major changes. So maging aware tayo sa kanila.

These are:
• Fear of change
• Not wanting to be uncomfortable
• Fear of uncertainty
• Being tired
• Fear of failure
• Fear of not being good enough
• Not having time
• Being busy with all kinds of things
• Waiting for something to happen
• Perfectionism
• Being overwhelmed with all that you have to do
• Not knowing how
• Not wanting to go out of comfort zone

We all have these fears and reasons for not taking action.

Ang masasabi ko lang, They’re all BS 😡

I’m not saying na change is easy, napakahirap talaga magbago, dahil we’ve been used to, kung ano man ang meron tayo ngayon.

Yes, the fear of failure and change and discomfort and uncertainty are real … pero hindi sila good enough reasons for inaction. They can all be overcome. I’ve dealt with them, and I am still dealing with them…… and so the thousands, millions of others din.

You’re no worse than me or anyone else — mahaharap mo at malalaman mo ang mga takot natin.

We’re So Busy

Yes, you’re busy, tired, overwhelmed, lacking time … we all are.

Gumigising ako ng 5 or 6AM para magtrabaho sa side business natin, because I knew I’d be busy later in the day sa trabaho at sa ano pang bagay na hindi na ako makakapag focus sa negosyo.

I didn’t have more time or energy —but I was motivated, and I prioritized. You can make that happen too.

So let’s look at how to overcome these fears, find motivation, and prioritize. All with one small set of actions.

💪The “Dream and Find A Way” Actions💪

These are the set of actions that I’ve found to help overcome fears, find motivation, and prioritize:

Find A Purpose

Siguro alam mo na what your purpose is, but it’s good to review it and I keep natin yan sa harap ng mga thoughts natin. If you don’t have a purpose, simulan mo tanungin ang sarili mo:

– What will you want to look back on at the end of your life?
– What will make your life feel significant?
– What will give your life some meaning?

Kung wala tayong answer sa mga tanong na yan, it’s worth spending a little time para dyan. Go for a walk and think about it.🚶‍

Embrace Your Desire

Dahil you have a desire to do something positive in your life. I-embrace natin yan,
Embrace that hindi ba kahanga hanga that you have this desire?

Tignan mo to as the first positive step, it’s a leap!. Now use it and take action.

Create The Space

You won’t make any changes if you don’t create a small space for the change. Kelan tayo mag sisimulang gawin ang mga necessary changes natin? sa umaga? sa gabi? during your lunch break?

Don’t wait for the change to happen — find a way to make it happen.

Block some time sa calendar mo each day, even if it’s just 10minutes or an hour. If you don’t have the time, think about how long you spend each day on Facebook, TV, games, or doing smaller tasks that aren’t as important. Push those back for just a bit, and do what’s most important to you first.

If you’re overwhelmed by a large change, or madaming malalaking changes, just focus on one small step.

Let Ask Ourselves

Tanungin natin sarili natin what small action can you take today that will move you forward?

It might be something as simple as “mag study video editing para magamit ko sa mga video ads ko”, or “humarap sa salamin at mag praktis mag salita for your Facebook Live”.

Take a small step, and get moving. Movement brings movement. Now take another small step. This is how change is created.

Imagine this, be with me for a moment… and read mo ito and internalize mo lahat ng sinasabi ko…. try mong maging silent ngayon, punta ka sa isang silent na lugar…..

I-feel mo ang air na nakapaligid sayo. . .

As of now, maraming ang nakapaligid sayo ,your thoughts are flowing in your mind right now.

Try to feel the environment around you.

Your thoughts, at kung ano ano pa try to connect with them.

Nakapaligid din sayo ngayon ang mga pinapangarap mong maabot sa buhay andyan lang sila, nakatingin lang sayo ang dreams, goals, aspirations and gift mo. Focus tayo sa kanila ngayon.

I want you to imagine, try to visualize this.

Visualization

You are now in your dying bed, at malapit na malapit na tayong sa end ng ating buhay.

Imagine na ang nakatingin lang sayo ngayon, ay walang iba kundi ang mga dreams mo, goals mo, aspirations mo, ang GIFT na binigay sayo ni Lord. Ano kaya ang sasabihin nila?

Gusto mo bang sabihan ka nila na, “Ano ba yan, ang unfair mo naman,…. nang-iiwan ka naman eh, we are sooooo sad na hindi mo kami natupad, inaantay ka namin, binibigyan ka namin ng SIGNS para makuha mo kami, pero you were not taking that steps and take the risks” haaaaayyyysss… 😥

Or

Would you like if they will tell you na “Thank you, thank you na sooooo much, we are very happy that you made us visible sa mundo.

Thank you sa pag gamit mo samin to have more impact. We are happy and very satisfied sa mga ginawa mo para magkasama tayo lagi sa journey mo. We are ready to be with you in the next chapter of your life.”

You have a gift, sulitin natin ang buhay natin, take the risk para sa mga pangarap natin, goals, aspirations, use that gift na meron tayo na binigay satin ni Lord.

Regrets

✔Don’t let that regrets come to you sa time na wala na tayong chance o wala na tayong panahon.

Salamat sa pagbabasa at sana na inspire ka and I’m sure kaya mo din. 🙂

Thank you so much coach Eduard Reformina from the bottom of my heart, thank you so much for making this dream a reality.

Thank you bro Jay Gregorio Hilton Astoveza Jeneil Aguilar at Jeric Losorata mga tunay na mga brader salamat sa lahat

Thank you Rey Aldwin Valeriano! grabe na this bro 😀

Salamat sa lahat ng mga nakilala ko sa journey na ito, salamat sa team ko, at sa #codefasttrack Family.

Maraming maraming salamat LORD!

💕💕💕I LOVE YOU commUNITY! ❤❤❤

GOD BLESS EVERYONE! tuloy tuloy lang! 🙂

DREAM, AND FIND A WAY!
James Guillera

P.S. If you want to have more time with your family then you need this automated system

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